So Now You Know About Narcissism, Who Can You Tell? Should You Tell? w/Bonus Triangulation

Explaining your relationship to the narcissist or emotionally immature person, people, or entity in your life to those around you can be incredibly validating when it’s met with empathy, curiosity, and understanding. But, when you open up to someone and they respond with judgment, neutrality, or “one-upmanship” (“you think your situation is bad, let me tell you about my co-workers, college roommates, former high school substitute gym teachers relationship…at least that isn’t what you’re going through!”) it can make you feel even worse! So how do you know who is safe to talk to, and what do you even say? Tony gives examples from his private women’s group of positive and negative experiences with sharing. Plus, Tony explains narcissistic triangulation by referencing the article “What is Triangulation in Psychology,” by Arlin Cuncic from

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