emotional immaturity

I Don’t Even Know What That Means? Unmasking the Silent Symphony of the Ultimate Gaslighting Guffaw!

Have you ever received accusations from a narcissist or emotionally immature person, left bewildered by claims about your words or actions? Have you ever been blamed for instructing your father on roofing specifics when you know nothing about roofs, even though your spouse is a roofer? In this episode, Tony delves into real-life stories from …

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The Power of Community to Combat Addiction – Chandler Rogers on How the Relay App Repels Porn

Tony gives a “state of the union” address on working with people struggling with turning to pornography as a coping mechanism. He then interviews Chandler Rogers, CEO of Relay, an app that helps people stay connected and accountable on their recovery journey. Relay makes it easy to connect with a shame-free support group, an essential …

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Exploring the 5 Types of Narcissism pt 1 of 2

Tony tackles the 5 types of narcissism in part 1 of 2. He references the article “5 Types of Narcissism and How to Spot Each,” Medically reviewed by Jeffrey Ditzell, DO written By Courtney Telloian — Updated on September 15, 2021http://psychcentral.com/health/types-of-narcissism Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony’s newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch …

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Thou Shalt Use Whichevereth Type of Toothpaste Thou Wantest – Breaking the Commandments of Narcissism (Finally!)

People in relationships with narcissists, or extremely emotionally immature people, are often convinced, coerced, or controlled into believing that certain universal rules or commandments must be followed to continue in the relationship. In healthy relationships, both people are free to express how they do things and their likes and dislikes. Then if a change is …

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From Gaslighting to Greatness…You ARE Enough, Wonderful and Amazing!

Tony shares a question from his private Facebook group about gaslighting and “breaks down the game film” on why it is still difficult to change your patterns of communication with the narcissist even though you’re now aware of what you previously weren’t aware of. He shares some powerful responses to the question from members of …

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Why Confronting the Narcissist is Exactly What They Want!

Tony reads a message from a listener who asks, “why won’t their therapist confront their narcissistic spouse?”. He explains more of the origin story of narcissism and how the path of the narcissist leads them to a place where they can’t possibly be the problem and why, if you confront the narcissist, it can make …

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