Emotionally immature

Exploring Anxiety, Uncertainty, and “Narcissistic Victim Syndrome” w/Bonus Haiku

Tony talks more about anxiety, uncertainty, and the brain’s adorable desire to make sense of things that often don’t make sense. He reads a haiku and a poem from the women’s private Facebook group, and then he references “Narcissistic Victim Syndrome” from the article “12 Signs You’ve Experienced Narcissistic Abuse (Plus How to Get Help) …

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Thou Shalt Use Whichevereth Type of Toothpaste Thou Wantest – Breaking the Commandments of Narcissism (Finally!)

People in relationships with narcissists, or extremely emotionally immature people, are often convinced, coerced, or controlled into believing that certain universal rules or commandments must be followed to continue in the relationship. In healthy relationships, both people are free to express how they do things and their likes and dislikes. Then if a change is …

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Don’t Give the Narcissist the “Gift” of Your Anger – Button Pushing, Family Drama and More “Aha” Moments

Tony shares questions and answers from his forum for women in relationships with narcissistic or emotionally immature people. The questions deal with narcissistic family systems, whether or not to “confront” or air out the narcissist’s drama to the entire family. Two forum members share their “aha” moments, one bringing more clarity (their narcissist having to …

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Is Kindness in Your Genes? The Narcissist/Nice Person Origin Story

Tony reads an email from a listener who shares their “waking up” experience and how difficult it can be to break free from a “trauma bond” and stay strong when the narcissist/emotionally immature partner pushes all the buttons to get you back. He also discusses the origins of “pathological kindness” and shares more from Ross …

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Shouldn’t Somebody Tell Her? How to Handle Narcissistic In-Laws w/Kristin Hill, LMHC

Tony talks with Kristin Hill, a fellow therapist, about her “waking up” to the narcissism of an in-law and the challenges that come along with interrupting a “family system” that already has an established pattern of behavior around an emotionally immature individual. Kristin is a mental health counselor based in Washington specializing in postpartum mood …

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