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Autism or Narcissism? Unpacking Neurodivergent Relationships with Jodi Carlton, MEd

In today’s episode, we dive deep into the complexities of neurodiversity and narcissism in relationships. Our guest, Jodi Carlton, brings a wealth of expertise, drawing from over two decades of experience as a therapist, educator, and coach, with a special focus on neurodiversity. She has an intimate understanding of neurodivergent individuals. She has worked extensively …

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All These Fears Will Be For Your Good – Facing the Fear Trap

True or false? You only use 10 percent of your brain? Albert Einstein was a lousy student, and look how he turned out! Positive affirmations will lead you to self-love and happiness. To get the answers, you’ll need to listen to this episode, but (spoiler alert) we are often building meaning and judging ourselves based …

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Sanity over Spouse: Crafting Calm Amidst Chaos

Today we dig more into the age-old question, “Should I stay or should I go?” And if I’m staying, what are some strategies to help maintain one’s sanity? Tony unpacks a poignant email from a listener, shedding light on the subtle nuances of gaslighting – a common manipulation tactic used by narcissists. Through this exploration, …

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Intimacy (aka S-E-X) w/Dan Purcell of “Get Your Marriage On!”

Let’s talk about S to the E-X, aka “intimacy.” Dan Purcell, host of the “Get Your Marriage On” podcast as well as the “Intimately Us” app https://r.intimately.us/tonyoverbay joins Tony to talk about the mission that he, along with his wife Emily, share of strengthening marriages by helping them deepen their connection through both physical and …

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They Really Do Suck the Life Out of You – The “Antagonistic” Attachment of the Narcissist

Tony goes on a quick tangent between parts 1 and 2 of exploring the five types of narcissists to look into the antagonistic attachment style of the narcissistic person. An “antagonist,” from purely a biological, scientific point of view, is a relationship in which one organism benefits at the expense of another. People in narcissistic …

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Dealing with Discomfort In Relationships…and Life!

Tony dissects a couple’s potentially destructive conversation, examining discomfort and anxiety’s role in our relationships. He also talks about the challenges of relying on memory when attempting to have difficult conversations.   And follow Tony on the Virtual Couch YouTube channel to see a sneak preview of his upcoming podcast “Murder on the Couch,” where True …

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Let ME Explain Narcissism and Emotional Immaturity to Your Friends, So You Don’t Have To!

When asked if Tony had a podcast to refer to people who were moderately interested in learning about narcissism, he said, “of course I do!” And then he couldn’t find one. This episode is for those of you who want to try and explain your situation to people you care about who want to know …

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Why People Stay in Unhealthy Relationships – You Do Deserve to Be Happy!

Why do people stay in unhealthy relationships? Many don’t believe they are deserving of happiness. Tony tackles this topic using “When You Don’t Feel You Deserve to Be Happy” by Robert Taibbi as his muse and a post from his women’s private Facebook group. The article can be found at https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fixing-families/201901/when-you-feel-you-dont-deserve-be-happy Find all the latest …

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When the Student Becomes the Teacher – One Mother Opens Up to Her Adult Children

What is the best way to support somebody beginning to “wake up” to the narcissism or the emotional immaturity in their relationship but still willing to wait for a miracle to occur? And what if that “somebody” is a parent in a relationship with a step-parent that you’ve never really liked? And what that miracle …

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A Cornucopia of Narcissism! Switzerland Friends, Confabulated Memory, Sitting w/Discomfort, Family Roles and More!

Tony discusses the differences between false memories and confabulation. He then reads a message from the “women in relationships with narcissistic ‘fill in the blank’” Facebook group that leads to a breakdown of “Switzerland Friends,” as well as how we deal with discomfort, as well as how “family systems theory” could provide an answer to …

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